When To Say Goodbye (How To Redefine a Relationship).

Staying in any relationship past its expiration date is not love. Awakening as love can mean that the closet full of old and comfortable relationships, even “love” relationships just do not fit you anymore.

Being equally yoked is to be aligned to an evolutionary heart that honors love and expansion, beyond the roles and identities that have kept us looping in relational suffering.

Being comfortable in our relationship is not a reason to stay. In order to experience a full throttle ever-expanding love, we must challenge all relationships to evolve beyond the attachments, limiting beliefs, roles and conditioning within relationships that are constricting your spiritual evolution.

In the Bible, Matthew 10:14 shares: “If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, shake the dust of your feet when you leave that home or town.” In my own journey, I confronted a difficult decision in my marriage. Not all relationships are here for a lifetime. Some relationships come, and go, to awaken the truth of divine love that lives within our being.

While redefining a relationship takes us to the throne room in our own sacred hearts, staying in any relationship that is not serving reflective love is a mass weapon of distraction blocking your own spiritual evolution.

Every relationship is a gift and irreducibly interconnected. So, in truth, we never really say “good-bye.” Every relationship becomes an integral part of you. There’s a scripture that says, “do not make friends with an angry man, lest you learn his ways and set a snare for your Soul.”

God’s loving grace took me directly to this scripture when I was on my knees seeking the blessing to know what I already knew, deep within my own heart. God Source wisdom lives within you. Trust the voice of your heart, for it always honors love. Unless a relationship is mutually committed to evolving, then it is devolving. No counselor or friend lives within the inner guidance and sage of your own intrinsic wisdom that lives alive within your own sacred heart.

So often we seek validation and waste precious time. You will know when you know it is time to redefine a relationship. Bless it and bring gratitude to the gift and lesson that every relationship offers. Saying “good-bye” to the “role” you’ve each played opens the heart door to the infinite possibilities of experiencing new dynamic relationships. Trust that honoring your heart will always honor what serves the highest evolutionary path for all parties is the path of your sovereign heart. Your choice to redefine your relationship just may be the catalyst the other heart needs to begin their own inward reflective journey to awaken the truth and to know love within.
Never stay in the drowning stagnant waters of a relationship that is resistant, or long past its expiration date. Embrace the uncharted waters flowing within the freefall into the sublime mystery, and grace, of trusting your own sacred heart of divine love as you surrender to divine will.

All love is generated from within…

Wrapping my heart around you to unleash the courage that lives within the heart that trusts in its own divinity to love embodied…

This is your epic love story and it happens within the love-making!!!